I think I'm pretty open minded about fantasy and porn and masturbation, but I would be a little 'weirded out' if I found out my boyfriend was keeping pictures of my friends to masturbate to. Old girlfriends is different. to me. They've actually had sex with them.
I mean, just because you can do something doesn't mean you should do it. Plus, are you absolutely certain that masturbating repeatedly to pictures of people you know will not affect your relationship with that person? I have a little experience with this and I say, yes, it most certainly does. All claims to the steely, detached nature of male fantasy notwithstanding.
I think, as with all things, it depends on the person. And, ultimately, if he's being a dick about it, I would be more concerned about that than the pictures themselves.
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