Firstly thanks for the responses. Glad everyone here is understanding and didnt rip into me.
Im pretty sure a big part of it is psychological, there may be a physical problem too. But my mind always wanders when were trying to have sex. Ill be thinking about what Im thinking about. I can feel my heart race (in a bad way) when we try.
I also have a really hard time sleeping in the same bed as her.
Guess Ill have to see a doctor, even though Im really not looking forward to it.
I also dont use a condom but she went on the pill (makes me feel even more guiltly). Not worried about STDs.
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