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dude. relax! its not as "serious" as you may think
see a doctor. trust me when i say this, its not as bad as you think. the first time i went to see a doctor so he can check out my junk i was nervous. i now find it ironic that over time ive shown my junk to more doctors than women. they only need to tell me to drop 'em and they're down. its no big deal.
with a doctor he'll be able to tell you what's wrong and possibly prescribe medication (viagra) if necessary.
but it sounds like you're over thinking this whole situation and stressing yourself out to an extent that you underperform.
"im not going to perform, im not going to perform, im not going to perform" - of course you're not going to perform.
get that thought out of your head.
the good news here is that you get stiffies while you sleep, so its not a physical issue were dealing with here and the plumbing seems to work.
the most important thing is that you have an understanding partner. makes ure you kep an open an honest line of communication with her, that way your stress levels will alleviate somewhat.
as a last note, i think crimsonghosts advice regarding not using condoms is the worst thing you can take from this.
dude, wear a condom no matter what. the last thing you want to do is have to go to a doctor with an itch, lesions or if you suspect you have HIV and then wait for the results. You'll also have to pull down your pants and they'll stick a metal rod up your urethra to take swabs and make cultures from them.
the second last thing you want is a kid if its not planned. dont be a douche. wear a rubber when having sex.
that said, if you did a search on this site there has been a lot of threads about this sort of problem, so feel free to use the search button.
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