My first wife and I were already having severe marital problems when I suspected her of having an affair.
Since I thought my ex-wife was having an affair with another man I set up a hidden camera in the our bedroom. I had overheard her on the telephone, and knew she was planning for him to come over late one night (I had to stay at the office for a Client Relations building exercise). When I watched the tape the next day I was surprised to find she was having an affair with a very attractive female. In fact, the "other woman" was incredibly sexy - much more so than my first wife.
This made me bold enough to admit "spying" on her, and the fact that I wanted to try a threesome. My first wife and I had had a monogamous relationship to that point - but were fairly exploratory (outdoor sex, semi-public sex...like in a theater, etc). Anyway, my wife was interested, but the other female was not.
A few weeks later I found out my ex-wife was also having an affair with another man. How did I find out? My ex-wife's "female lover" called me to tell me about it! She and I ended up having a fairly protracted (5-6 months) sexual affair. During our affair she repeatedly told me she wasn't "bi sexual", but had been "bi curious". This had lead her to a website where my ex-wife had posted a comment about wanting to try it too.
I never did get the threesome, but the "other woman" and I watched the video tape together quite a few times. This made for very passionate sex!
Last edited by Loveredheads; 12-14-2010 at 12:35 PM..
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