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So far the advice is for Anon to make the adjustment, compromise or go with the flow (pardon the pun). If it's a serious relationship --and it sounds like it is--then both need to work out some sort of solution. If she moves in with him, then her original reason for not flushing after a pee is no longer valid, so she will have to work on remembering to flush the toilet after going to the bathroom for any bodily movement. And to make it cool and not seem as though you're nitpicking, ask her if there's anything (other than the flushing issue) about you that kind of peeves her, and make an honest effort to amend it. Being passive/aggressive about it is only going to make the resentment percolate -- clear the air now.
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