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Originally Posted by Makhnov
I would assume that you are not very concerned with your own sexual desires and preferences, you probably could not articulate them. Or you have never really thought about it. You may be perfectly satisfied with "hooking up" with a nice girl from your workplace. If that is what you like, go do it. If you are into the girl next door, genuinely, go for it. But that is not satisfying for everyone. In my case it is not even desirable.
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I'm going to go out on a limb here and say that you don't have any female friends, or better still, are one of these people who strongly believe men and women can never have a truly platonic relationship.
You're right about one thing, I'm not very concerned with my own sexual desires or preferences. I can, however, articulate my desires extremely well, that you'll just have to trust me on.
Thing is, your life style that you describe, while I lay no judgment on your choice to have sex with prostitutes while you figure yourself out, it's really just masturbation. You don't really give a shit about the person you're having sex with, you're just getting your rocks off. But hey, that's faaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaar more preferable in my eyes than some of the disgusting, low down douche bag tactics I've seen some narcissists use to get people into bed so they can have sex with themselves.
You and I quite obviously perceive reality very differently which is just part of the magic of being human. However, I can see that nothing is going to shake your perception, so I believe I'll leave it there.