I would like to thank everyone again for their advice. I did talk about this with my sister in law and I think we can keep our relationship at a lower level.On the plus side,she just started dating someone who seems like a really good guy. This will help both of us put our emotions where they should be directed-at our own relationships.The only problem is that her relationships are normally short term. I have to make sure that if this doesn't work out for her, I cannot be the shoulder for her to cry on anymore. That is the catalyst that gets us connected emotionally. Again thank you for your input.
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