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Originally Posted by mixedmedia
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the glamorization of paying for sex with, ehem, beautiful, young, Eastern European Hegre models - all of this plays into the gratification that he receives from his sex life.
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Rest assured I am not going to come within 10 meters of his models. Hegre has been very high-society even at the beginning. He started out as a trained photographer doing projects in Romania that are more like what we would see in National Geographic. He is even more wealthy now. He's really in an ivory tower. His models are serious professionals.
The point that I was making sailed over your head. Let me ra-hash it again so that maybe it will sink in a second time. This website hosts the trading of nude photography. The girls in those photos are being payed to strip naked and have cameras shoved between their legs. Money is exchanging hands.
The point was that such business is not alien to prostitution. I keep making these points because what I'm trying to communicate to you is that the world at large does not really contain all these mental divisions and distinctions you hold dear. These divisions and distinctions are being used by you to beat me over the head on an internet forum. Each business man decides on his own to be coercive with the girls he is working with. He makes the decision on the ground about whether he is going to abusive. It is your television screen that tells you there is an "epidemic". But all the trials and suffering of people only happen in local social settings. Even these so-called "guards" that you say are needed to protect the girls don't exist. We are their guards. I am her guard.
(Let me whisper a little secret about the world that you didn't know, mixedmedia, just between me and you. Every man around every woman is her guard. It matters not whether he is her father, a policeman, a pimp, or a club owner. All men make decisions about how they treat the girls around them.)
Having said that, many of the posts in this thread are really flame-war baiting. Because I said the word "overseas" your suburbanite brain immediately began accusing me of engaging in coerced trafficking of the unwilling. That was wrong. That was naive. And that was slanderous. The widespread accusation of "misogyny" is also part-and-parcel of this flame-war tactic. (i.e. If you yell "misogyny" enough times, people will start believing that I am out to hurt someone.) If you read what my posts actually say, you will see that you have no reason at all to be freaking out, pulling your hair, and running in circles to protect someone from monsters.
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Originally Posted by Baraka_Guru
The OP made it clear---and even used an enumerated list---that he thinks prostitution is a preferred alternative to merciless interrogation from aggressively insulting, randomly sarcastic, manipulative, man-destroying baby-makers that treat men cruelly to test their compatibility and endurance for a relationship, which will invariably lead to tests of loyalty based on some form of mind-reading witchcraft, and that her trickery knows no bounds and will even go as far as to default men's behaviour as "dangerous" as a way to force him to prove otherwise with the result being his exposing his every secret whilst she reveal none of her own. This, being the natural state of women and their desire for baby-making man-enslavement---and this makes prostitution, of course, a kind of emancipation. Prostitution is emancipation itself.
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Thank you for this, Baraka Guru. You've put the whole of it into a nutshell. A run-on, but a nutshell. I tend to be a little long-winded. But my essential message is just a heads up to young men.
Guys : if it is sex you want, you need not subject yourselves to the trials and tribulations of a relationship. There is another, better way to get it. If you didn't know such options were open to you, that's okay, I will show you them.