I don't know about dominant, (which has a specialized meaning here) but I can be aggressive. Sometimes I like my guy to just lie there (or stand... or sit...) and let me do him.
I'm not much for just lying on my back, myself, which is what my Sig other was used too. But that's another thread. I like a lot of movement and changing positions. Breast play and oral mixed with vaginal. Doggie and cowgirl.
Vigorous, but I don't dig pain.
But, to each his/her own. I wouldn't dream of trying to tell others what to do or not do but... most of the dom/sub stuff, the props, the costumes, (like when I see it in porn) strikes me as being somewhere between boring and silly. Like Willravel said in another thread...
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Originally Posted by Willravel
I'm willing to try anything once, but generally speaking, most of the extra stuff bores me to tears. For some guys, vaginal intercourse where the woman orgasms, especially more than once, is the holy grail. Everything else pales in comparison. Don't get me wrong, I get off on making a woman feel pleasure any way she can, but talking dirty, fur, S&M, etc. does absolutely nothing for me whatsoever....
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I first experienced sex on my fifteenth birthday, so I've been "sexually active" for just over 19 years, I've had quite a few partners, and there isn't much that I haven't tried at least once. But sometimes all I can do is just shake my head.
Lindy