Good advice already, but here's some more (sorry for overlap):
For form and anatomy, try this site:
Exercise & Muscle Directory
Just stick to basic movements.
Try this as a routine (all with dumbbells):
- Chest press
- Bent over row
- Lunges or squats
- Shoulder press
- Curls
- Triceps extension
Keep it simple. Figure out your weight by trying to hit 8 to 12 reps per set. Try up to three sets. The last few reps should be challenging, but don't sacrifice good form...ever.
Try to rest at least 48 hours between workouts.