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Originally Posted by Plan9
I'd recommend putting yourself up on some online dating sites.
It's easy, cheap and, if nothing else, will give you more confidence to approach girls you come across "in real life."
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I respectfully disagree here, at least as I have experienced it.
During my first couple of years at law school I as woefully lonely and also horny. School as my first priority also really screwed up my ability to meet new people, so my dating pool was nonexistent.
I went and signed up for Match.com and this free site, Okcupid.com.
What the sites did, was increase my feeling of being (a) a creepster (b) desperate and (c) unwanted.
I'd see these cute girls in my area, message them, wink or whatever, and would never get any hits. The only time I received a message was from this unattractive 30 year old...who wanted to learn Chinese from me....
So in short. It magnified any insecurities I had.
If you're anything like me, you may be just missing perfectly good females around you.
Recently found out some attractive classmates always had the hots for me.
My 2 cents. And my experience (yours and, Plan9's may differ). Hope it helps.