I am a walking disaster zone.
I lost control of a gas power hand held fence auger and almost tore off my right arm. I have some limitations now to that arm and shoulder now.
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I fell off a horse, detached my retinas, broke my tailbone, bruised ribs, had a serious serious head concussion, lost my hearing in left ear for two weeks and still have problems with balance and sitting.
I was sitting at a red light in my car when I was hit by a semi first in the front, then the back. It herniated 4 of my back discs. My back goes out on a regular basis and yes, it limits how flexible I am.
I had a hiatal hernia repaired...and discovered it collapsed one of my lungs. I cant breath when I am bent in any direction. During sex I often lose my breath and almost pass out. CD has instructions NOT to call an ambulance unless I dont start breathing again once he unfolds me.
I dont have prosthetics but I have wicked "accidents" that have led to serious limits...I still have a helluva sex life and never had a lack of partners. And no one ever complained either.
I did have a partner leave me when I was recovering from my shoulder/arm accident. She couldnt wait for me to be "available" so she found an internet fuck. That woman ended up leaving her like she left me, then she wanted to come back. Not a chance.
If my partner was hurt and could not perform temporarily or permanently sexually or in another way, I would not wander. Been there, had it done to me and it sucked. SUCKED. Love is love and by god, look at everything I have been thru and can still be creative in and out of bed. When I love, I love completely and as long as I am wanted.
good topic, Plan9
PS: I have no visible marks or signs of my injuries. You would never be able to tell what I have been thru unless you were in bed with me...and then you just have to be aware of my directives...but then, you should anyway...lol...
Last edited by tasineah; 11-16-2010 at 09:56 AM..
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