Yes, there's the moment when you're hugging and your libido is kicked into high gear. In my case, there were a couple of teens in the background and we'd usually end up going out for lunch or dinner, depending on arrival time. All the while, the lustful stares and the gonna-fuck-your-brains-out smiles are going on while we try to avoid touching until they go to sleep so we can retire to my bedroom and spend countless hours making up for lost time.
Once we finally hit the bedroom, there were times when we just immediately undressed and with absolutely no awkwardness, went right to it. Other times, a conversation takes place where we lie fully clothed on the bed and it becomes a slow mutual seduction.
This took place about every 2 - 6 weeks for almost three years, after I moved 3 hours away from a live-in relationship of four years. Sometimes it was awkward to start, sometimes it wasn't.
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