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Originally Posted by ZombieSquirrel
My original intent was to not create a battle of the sexes. I probably should have been more vague with my question and not include gender terminology at all. Also, it would have been better to stay away from negative words such as needy.
What drives a person (of any gender) to be drawn to an innocent childlike persona? Does the caregiver need take over?
What draws a person (of any gender) to be drawn to a caregiver persona?
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I like the way you originally presented your question. It was clear and direct. I wish you had received better answers. As a culture, we do tend to react instead of reflect. There I go being direct with my primitive views. Feel free to ignore them if you can.
My mom was a self empowered lady. As a result, I am attracted to that kind of woman. I actually do not mind being intimidated. It happens and I get over it.
There is a difference between a childlike and a childish persona. I do like that authentic and transparent open and natural expression from a person in my life. Sex is best with a degree of trust and innocents. As I see it naturally. It is what I like.
Two self empowered adults can communicate authentically and still be kind and sensitive to what they recognize as their partners vulnerable points. I recognize that each of us has these vulnerable areas, although I would be hard pressed to prove it.
Somehow lost in all this discussion was your interest in starting a family. In my view the kind of guy that would fit best with your preferences will not be easy to find. I suggest that you keep doing what you think best and add a confidence factor to that effort.
The law of attraction works best when you add the gratitude energy beforehand.
Best Wishes!!!
John