I'm not all that social, most of my friends share some activity with me at a level pretty close to my own.
I'm a fairly good skier, my ski buddies push me to do more. That's why they are my ski buddies.
My motorcycle buddies ride all day and go too fast around corners. I wouldn't have it any other way.
My hiking buddies always want to go just a little bit further.
I get along with the folks I work with, but never socialize with them. I already see them as much as my wife.
I guess I tend to gravitate towards people that push me a little.
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