if John did not further engage in any other male to male sexual activity, I would chalk this hunting experience up to sexual experimentation. Many people do this at different times in their lives. If however, there were more experiences, then perhaps he needs to revisit his sexuality orientation.
I am not your typical woman. I do not call myself bisexual even tho I have enjoyably had sex with males and females. Bi implies two genders and I know there are more than two genders and I have slept with many of them. I am pansexual. But, until CD, I labeled myself as a lesbian because that is who I pursued. I did not pursue men. CD just fell into my lap, so to speak. Thankfully so.
And I have had sex with women who did not ID as bi or lesbian. They were "curious". What they really wanted was kinky sex and when I figured that out, I stopped topping those girls because if they just wanted a performance, I was going to get paid for it, not be someone's chemistry experiment. I can kink with the best of them but its with who I am engaging with on other levels....
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