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It doesn't matter if you don't believe there's a 'clique' or whatever the hell we're calling it. The very fact that several of us have mentioned this should be proof it's a prevalent feeling. Consider those of us who do contribute even despite this feeling. What about those newcomers who are less vocal or a little timid about putting themselves on the line, anonymity or not?

When I first joined, I was pretty blown away by the intelligence shown here. I even commented here and there, but it pretty much felt like I was on my own. Then I posted some artwork I'd drawn and actually got some responses and insight: That was the first time, in probably a month, that I felt welcome. That was after a month.

You don't see it, or maybe you're just used to it, but when you comment negatively toward each other in areas newcomers can see it, it creates a very hostile environment. They're probably thinking, "Wow, look at how they treat themselves-and they've known each other forever!" Why would they want to respond? Why would they want to create new threads? So they could get the same treatment?

I don't know what to do about that, besides welcoming newcomers more and putting ourselves on the line for them first. I've been trying to do that a little in the new users area, but I'm not always available very often.

I missed the new welcome thread before I posted this, so I just wanted to add I think that's an awesome start. Whoever thought of that, you're great =)

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