I had what you would call an LDR that would come and go with deployments (OK, I know there are going to be lots of coming and going jokes, but the OP asked, so keep 'em to yourselves for a minute.)
It was more of a FWB situation than a true relationship, but the reunion sex was awesome. I could never tell her when to expect me or where I was going or for how long, and I think she found it exciting. I know I did.
I think it's all in yer head (not THAT one), and attitude. If everyone knows what to expect, generally, (or not expect as the case may be) and is cool with it, it can be amazing.
She went out of her way to make the reunions special and different each time, as did I, because you just never knew. Gawd, it was hot.
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