Relationships do take work, whether you are 23, 18, or 90. Sitting around and not working on things is not going to make it work. If you want it to work out, put some work in. If you aren't ready for that, honestly just do her a favor and move on, and let her move on with her life. You'll probably regret it later on down the road, but if that is how it is, she'll be pissed off and hurt for a while but will eventually thank you for it.
So that magical "spark" is gone. You're not in the honeymoon/constantly fucking like rabbits stage of the relationship anymore, and you've figured out that yes, she does in fact pass gas and has bowel movements, and she performs said gastro-intestinal functions while you are in your shared place of residence. You've invested a fairly significant amount of time into this relationship, you're living with her, you're both adults with your own ambitions and goals. That's life. That is part of a relationship. If you miss that "spark," work on it. Break out of your routine, make doing things with her a priority, even if it just means finding some time to do things here and there. Relationships involve mutual compromises, growth, and communication. If you're not at the point in your life that you appreciate or want that, and would rather be back living the single life, hanging out with your boys, and going out and trying to get laid, there's nothing inherently wrong with that. However, it's probably something that should be figured out for both of your sakes.
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I've got the love of my life and a job that I enjoy most of the time. Life is good.
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