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ive shred most of my friends in the past few years.
some because i live in another country now
some ive shed in the new country out of necessity (assholes)
some ive shed because ive changed jobs
some because my focuses have changed.
ive changed their status from 'friends' to 'mates' or 'acquaintences'. I've got no problem doing this.
This probably leaves me with maybe 4 very close friends of mine split between 2 countries.
i guess outgrowing your friends is a part of life and a natural progression...a bit like losing your hair. first you worry about it. then you realise. hey, this aint so bad... and you just go with it.
but yes compartmentalising is one choice you can take up. i know that if i hang out with the 'mates', theres a group type that ill be introduced to. sure, they're fun and a great laugh, but not necessarily the type i can fit into the 'friends' mould.`
just remember that birds of a feather flock together.
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