I love this forum and most everyone in it, in fact it is the only forum that I consider myself a part of. However, I admit, I do not post a lot.
Why? Well in the beginning it was because I was intimidated. I then tried posting more as I became more comfortable with the people on the site. I am not someone who is afraid to voice my opinion, that is until someone takes what I say out of context or twists it to suit their own point. While I have no problem being outspoken, I do have a problem beating my head against a wall trying to defend myself for something I did not really say. Problem is, people seem to assume the worst about others and thus misinterpret posts and even thread starters (ie feminine vs female, this is not meant as a jab, just an example on the top of my head).
The last issue I see is that many threads break down into an incestuous circle jerk. While it is amusing to read, there is not much point in trying to respond to the OP if no one is going to read that when the circus side show is so much more entertaining.
As for money and donating, now that I have given up on my masters program, I am looking for work and will donate once I have a paying job. College loans do not pay much
I do not want to see this place die, I have created many friendships here. I will try to do my best at posting and maybe even starting a new thread in between job hunting.
Cyn, thank you for all the hard work you do! I know this doesn't fix anything, but I think you deserve to hear it.