So you can't think of anything else but sex, and with multiple partners, and all she wants is to have a relationship with you with occasional sex? It occurs to me that she might feel more secure in the relationship without all of those other potential sex partners in the room with you both. You are trying to have a relationship that she doesn't want.
You have a choice here, and that is to accept her lack of drive, and give up your wild fantasy life, which seems to be destructive to your relationship, or give up the relationship, for her sake. She's already given you her answer on the sex. Quit pushing.
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