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Originally Posted by Plan9
Therapy? Sheeit, dude needs to get laid. I recommend finding a good martial arts school and starting up training, too. You'll get more assertive.
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I'm not disagreeing with you Plan - but all the previous posts about kicking her out, taking up judo and screw around didn't do anything for him.
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Coming back to read these responses this morning I felt defensive - like how dare you speak so rudely about someone I love. I mean I do, I really do. Even if it did get to the point of breaking it off with her, the hardest part would be seeing her face. I don't want to bring her any pain, and she really is a sweet girl who doesn't *want* to upset people
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I just added my view on a different solution suggested by me and others.
In the end it still boils down to: Gain confidence, be assertive and do something about the relationship.