Hey, don't you "sheesh" me...
You can't expect a crack addict to clean up overnight. At the same time, you can't expect a person to change their outlook, habits, shortcomings overnight.
Oh, hey, they're actually addressing it, though, by posting on Internet forums, asking for help.
...I'm just sayin'.... some posts here do more harm than good.
But that's the prerogative of the posters. I happen to have my own as well. You can vent your frustrations if you want, but don't expect people like me to always sit idly by.