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ok...roughly 50% of the people you will come across are of the opposite sex and, unless you are absolutely repellent, some of them will be friends of yours...there's nothing wrong with this, it's actually quite normal and healthy to have friends of the opposite sex...some of them will probably even become pretty close friends with whom you joke and play around with, this is also healthy and normal...in my experience, a big part of joking and playing around is often seen as flirting by others, especially the jealous types...as a jealous significant other of your boyfriend you're just going to have to figure out how to come to terms with that...if you confront him about it and ask him straight up, as bluntly as possible what his relationship with this female friend is he should answer honestly...convince him that you want complete honesty and that you won't care what he says, you just want the truth, if he's dishonest after that, he's a piece of shit...dishonesty and lack of trust is going to tear your relationship apart and any future relationships you have as well
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