I wouldn't have looked in the first place. But, here's how to handle it now:
- step back and take a deep breath.
- think about whether you really love him or not.
- give yourself enough time to cool down before seeing him so you don't accidentally say something stupid.
- consider yourself lucky that you have a guy that shares his phone records with you - he has nothing to hide.
- become comfortable with the idea that he isn't out to hurt you.
- evaluate your actions and your approach to the relationship, change behaviors that might drive him away.
- find happiness in your relationship.
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