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guy44 · 10-02-2010, 08:51 PM

Holy crap, you did a lot of snooping. What really stood out to me is that you paid money to check who he was texting, discovered the phone belonged to a guy, and still think he must have been conversing with a woman.

That indicates to me that you have very deep-seated issues with trust and insecurity. I think you might want to look into therapy, if only to begin to identify the origin of these feelings. You're not necessarily a bad person for what you have done, but I think you might want to take some concrete steps towards self-improvement.

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guy44 Somnabulist Location: corner of No and Where	Holy crap, you did a lot of snooping. What really stood out to me is that you paid money to check who he was texting, discovered the phone belonged to a guy, and still think he must have been conversing with a woman. That indicates to me that you have very deep-seated issues with trust and insecurity. I think you might want to look into therapy, if only to begin to identify the origin of these feelings. You're not necessarily a bad person for what you have done, but I think you might want to take some concrete steps towards self-improvement. __________________ "You have reached Ritual Sacrifice. For goats press one, or say 'goats.'"