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Originally Posted by The_Jazz
Wow, he really needs to break up with you and find someone more mature.
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Glad someone said it. That is pure "QFT" material there.
Based on the two threads you have started on here, you might as well break up because your insecurities are going to kill whatever relationship you two have.
There are a few things that jumped out at me.
One, you snooped. Snooping is bad. BAD. B. A. D. In other words, don't fucking do it. Search this forum for snooping and see how all the OP's relationships worked out after they snooped. You either trust him or you don't. Looks like you don't, which is going to kill your relationship.
Two, not only do you not trust him, but you paid MONEY for some hookey internet lookup service just to prove that he was cheating on you. What's next? Private investigator to follow him around? Pay someone on the army base to watch his ever move?
Three, I've had text message conversations that last 50+ messages just to figure out what restaurant we wanted to eat at. Isn't this the same girl that let's him crash on the couch (correct me if I'm wrong, but I think it's her parent's house too)? If he was going to have a "screw that girl I've been seeing forever, let's bone" conversation... wouldn't he have it face to face?
You really need to find some way to curve your raging insecurity, it's pretty much going to be a game breaker for every relationship you will ever have.
Then again, you most likely will ignore everyone's advice on here, seems like you didn't listen to anyone in the last thread.
Good luck on that.
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Or what martian said if you tl;dr my post.