I would handle this by looking into how to get over your insecurities. This often involves building self-esteem.
I think you snooped because of low self-esteem. Don't take this the wrong way. Many people have self-esteem issues.
You need to figure yourself out if you want to maintain a strong relationship with him.
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Knowing that death is certain and that the time of death is uncertain, what's the most important thing?
—Bhikkhuni Pema Chödrön
Humankind cannot bear very much reality.
—From "Burnt Norton," Four Quartets (1936), T. S. Eliot
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