chelle21689

I've been with my bf for 5 years but 2 years long distance. Things have been really good between us and I felt absolutely loved. No stress, nothing. Anyways, a couple days ago he gave me the password to his cell phone account online to manage things. He didn't realize it gave out detailed information.

I've had a bad habit of snooping in the past...very badly. So preventing history repeating itself, I told him immediately to change his password or I'll look through it. He told me he'll change it later. He didn't change it immediately so I looked through it all...

Phone calls were mostly me, minutes used were mostly to me. Nothing really. Then I looked at the text messages. For about 2-3 days he texted his (Army) female friend for several hours non stop. I know her number so I recognized it...I then saw that he texted another person for several hours non stop...someone across the country far away. I figured maybe it was an Army friend since they're scattered everywhere.

I confronted him why he texted these people so much. He said that texts are short and they accumulate and that they weren't like intimate deep conversations. It just bothers me because they were for several hours like every minute.

I looked up the other number I didn't recognize and paid money. It belonged to someone named Michael Lewis but I don't think that was the person he was texting but probably the person that pays the bills...I have a feeling it's a girl. I haven't asked my bf who it was yet. He texed others but not as much.. these days was when he was bored with no job before he left for training

Anyways, I'm trying to think if this is wrong. There have been times I've made male friends and could talk to for hours online without me having feelings or it being inappropriate. So I don't know if it's a different situation with texting.

I don't know what to do, I just want to know if these people he's been texting are involved with him romantically or what.