Originally Posted by tmoney420

thanks everyone. i think what makes this situation so confusing for me is that this girl has a boyfriend so im not sure whats going through her head because we hang out pretty much every day. i guess im confused as to if she wants to be "fuck buddies" or if she actually likes me. and if we are just fuck buddies does that mean she wants to everytime she comes over or what? obviously since this is a first sexual relationship of any kind everything is going to be new and strange to me, but every other girl ive done anything with in the past has been my girlfriend. so even this kind of relationship is foreign to me. so basically i want to know, and obviously you all can only speak from your own experiences, but how often should i be looking to initiate things with her? i hope this made sense i was just kinda thinking out loud...