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I agree with you, I was just stating the argument which is used. Many still believe (falsely) that homosexuality is a choice, and therefore a behavior. I have a dear friend who spent 28 years in the US military. During that time, he got married, had two kids, finally opened "the invitation" he'd been given since birth, divorced his wife, met and dated his husband, then married him in Florida. He was never discovered, but it sucked to be in that state of secrecy. He figures the only way he got through it was being able to talk about his kids all the time and the fact that he went reserves, so he only saw his unit 2 weeks/year plus 1 weekend/month.
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