How to ask if they are STD free?
After many years of a monogamous relationship followed by marriage I am single and dating again. I've had and have lots to learn about woman and dating.
Since the divorce I've had one GF and was like a teenager and didn't think about protection. I've had a vasectomy so protection from pregnancy wasn't an issue but there are other things to consider.
Now I find myself dating more woman and getting closer to being physical with them.
My question is what to do about the condom? Use one or not? We are all in our mid to late 30's with kids so is there some implied health? I would like to think yes but I might be naive and stupid.
Do you ask your partner if they are clean or take no chances and use a condom? I know that sounds like a simple question but after 16 years of no condom sex its hard to imagine going back.
Thanks for your responses.
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