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To answer a couple of your questions. No hasnt happened with my previous partners but its been quite a while like 1.5 years since my last encounter.
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You're a bit rusty and have performance anxiety. Just like most people do with new people.
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]Also now that I think about it I dont/cant really get hard without touching. I get turned on by porn and erotic stories but wont get get hard by just looking. Is this common for most people?
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I don't know how common it is, but it's not abnormal. Some people need a little more effort than others.
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Mentally Im not really sure where i am. Im trying to stay calm and relaxed and just enjoy it but I really do want to please her and the fact that I havent yet does bother me.
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Performance anxiety again. You're ready to go but you're worried you're not doing enough for her. Suggestion: go down on her first next time you guys get down to business. Ask her to tell you what works for her and tell you if she wants you to do anything different. that'll make it less awkward for you to tell her what you like.
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Another question. I live in Canada as well, which lubrication would you recommend, one that can be used with a handjob, oral and vaginal sex?
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I'm not sure if they have this kind of advanced technology up there in your snow-covered third-world wilderness, but see if you can find Pjur Eros. Not for oral (that's what salivary glands are for,) but for everything else.