And I wonder, what she's doingg....
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Originally Posted by Plan9
Just do it like every other girl does it: dump the loser army guy because he's inconvenient. You can get laid, he can get laid... everybody is happy.
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Quoted for truth.
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Originally Posted by Plan9
Off topic, but isn't it a sport among frat boys to screw as many girls-with-military-boyfriends-currently-deployed as possible?
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I don't think it's a sport. I think guys are just naturally slimy:
She's hot. I'm gonna **** her. I don't care if she has a bf. Even if said bf is quote unquote risking his life for my security.
That, and college kids are all hormones.
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Shit, I just realized I didn't answer the OP. To answer the OP, you have to decide for yourself if this is what you want, and if you can withstand the distance. The military is tough, very tough on relationships and families, and it will probably get worse. Most current deployments that I hear about are approximately 12-18 months. The last 9 month deployment I heard about was back in 2004 (Of course I could be wrong, but anecdotal evidence indicates that deployments will last more than a year). Can you handle that? If so, all the better, and your relationship will be better for it. If not, don't drag on a sucky thing and leave another service member to get a Dear John while he's got other shit to worry about.