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This topic always kicks my ass. For me it goes like: I enjoy relationship A and care for the person but it doesn't work out because of X,Y,Z. Usually a case of me being a clueless douchebag and them cheating. So then with relationship B I'm doing all the stuff I learned in relationship A and everything is going really well but I'm still thinking about relationship A because I had invested so much into it and it's still fresh in my mind. Eventually things break down because I'm a clueless douchebag-rinse-repeat. But I get over it and move on. I'm pretty sure this process has happened like four or five times.
The bad news is that I haven't had a relationship that has lasted to the two-year mark yet.
The good news is that I'm getting to play harpoon the velvet sea monster a lot.
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To the women that used to be in my life: My longing for you has a half-life of an unhealthy duration.
And in most cases I don't really want you back, I just want my time and effort back.
Last edited by Plan9; 08-30-2010 at 07:44 PM..
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