Originally Posted by I_bleed_love

4. Can you orgasm using your hands, rubbing against a pillow or in the bathtub?-I cannot orgasm just using my hands unfortunately. Ive tried, but my fingers do nothing for me. I know where to feel but I dunno maybe I cant totally reach the spot? I just feel nothing when I have my fingers in there. Ans as for the clit, it feels good, but I can never orgasm from it. As for the pillow lol I used to do that when I was younger. Bit messy for my tastes now lol.

13.How often are you trying to reach clitoral orgasm?-Not really that often anymore. We live with his father so we dont always get to fool around let alone have sex. But recently he has felt bad because I am always getting him off and I can't get off because it either takes too long or I squirt (from fingering) and thats a bit of a mess lol. KInd of a pain when we need to be quick and quiet.

---So yeah. Mostly I think maybe I am one of those women who gets off mostly on penetration. I have masturbated a lot, but never can get off because I feel that need for penetration to push me over. I cant do it myself, it doesnt work. But I just want to figure out how my man or I can get me off just with clitoral stimulation. (Since I make a mess otherwise lol). I know this isnt really a problem, it would just be nice to fix it. We joke about how my clit is broken even but it would be nice to get off for once without needing penetration. Course, there are sometimes where I need clitoral stimulation in order to get off with penetration too. It seems my body likes to choose when it wants to get off and when it doesnt lol.