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Here's the answer to the questions:
1. 2 hours? Do you have blisters?- lol no I do not have blisters. But my clit does get rather numb after that long.
2. Have you tried different vibrators?-I have tried many (though not the rabbit ones which I hear are great), but most of them end up dying on me O_o
3.Different speeds or intensities?-The only speed that works is the highest speed and even then sometimes depending on the toy its not enough.
4. Can you orgasm using your hands, rubbing against a pillow or in the bathtub?-I cannot orgasm just using my hands unfortunately. Ive tried, but my fingers do nothing for me. I know where to feel but I dunno maybe I cant totally reach the spot? I just feel nothing when I have my fingers in there. Ans as for the clit, it feels good, but I can never orgasm from it. As for the pillow lol I used to do that when I was younger. Bit messy for my tastes now lol.
5. Have you tried clitoral vacuums or any other sex toy or intensifying gel?-The vaccumes I am not totally for trying lol as for the gels I have tried a couple but all they do is feel minty. They dont help any.
6. Have you tried adding extra lubrication gels/oil?-Extra lubrication on my clit makes it even harder for me to feel any sensations. I need harder friction.
7. Do you touch your clitoris directly or do you just rub the hood?-I try a mix of both, sometimes directly on the clit is too much to the point of pain, so usually I go for the hood or on either side of it.
8. What is your emotional state during this?-My emotional state is always comfortable. I can't get in the mood if I am upset or other things are on my mind lol.
9.Are you relaxed and in the moment or worried about other things?-Yep I am always relaxed and most things in life do not stress me out.
10.Aren't you getting pretty tired after 30 minutes?-I can go for a very long time (I guess thats why I will put up with 2 hours of masturbation lol) so 30 minutes is nothing to me.
11. What kind of foreplay are you doing leading up to this?-Usually some kissing, he plays around my clit and opening, he touches me anywhere really. He is good at what he does, my body has always just been this aggrvating when it comes to stimulating it.
12.Are you on anti-depressants or other drugs that make reaching orgasm harder?-Nope, never been on any.
13.How often are you trying to reach clitoral orgasm?-Not really that often anymore. We live with his father so we dont always get to fool around let alone have sex. But recently he has felt bad because I am always getting him off and I can't get off because it either takes too long or I squirt (from fingering) and thats a bit of a mess lol. KInd of a pain when we need to be quick and quiet.
---So yeah. Mostly I think maybe I am one of those women who gets off mostly on penetration. I have masturbated a lot, but never can get off because I feel that need for penetration to push me over. I cant do it myself, it doesnt work. But I just want to figure out how my man or I can get me off just with clitoral stimulation. (Since I make a mess otherwise lol). I know this isnt really a problem, it would just be nice to fix it. We joke about how my clit is broken even but it would be nice to get off for once without needing penetration. Course, there are sometimes where I need clitoral stimulation in order to get off with penetration too. It seems my body likes to choose when it wants to get off and when it doesnt lol.
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