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I think it is clear from the information that you have provided that he has been unfaithful to you. He had the opportunity to come clean and admit his faults and make it right and chose not to. He chose to lie to you instead.
Now had he made a "mistake" and came clean, (things can often times be worked out with much communication and dedication to making the relationship work) then I can see giving him a chance at the relationship. (less the drama factor) However, he CHOSE to lie!
I have zero tolerance for liars. But how I feel is not going to change anything for you. Ultimately it is what you are willing to accept in a relationship that is going to determine where you go with this.
Ask yourself a few questions...
1) Is this the kind of relationship you want?
2) Can you live with knowing that this occurred and left unresolved?
3) Do you deserve to be lied to?
4) Do you want a lifetime of "drama" and fear induced silence?
5) Should you sacrifice your pride, dignity and self respect for a "man" who treats you in such manner?
6) Do you deserve REAL love or this?
I wish you the best.
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In the depth of winter, I finally learned that there was within me an invincible summer.
~Albert Camus
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