Originally Posted by raging moderate

err, what an odd thread. especially on this forum. eh, if you're not wanting to take it to the next level b/c you haven't been together for a month yet, probably best to not spend the day in your bedroom. i'd reserve the dinner/candles/games/etc for when you are actually ready to have sex. it is inevitably awkward and sometimes a relationship killer when that weirdo-strange moment comes and you say "um, i'm not ready" or some such thing when she wants to hop on pop. All the above advise is great but if you're not wanting to get laid for whatever reason, i'd hold off on it altogether until you ARE ready.

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edit - question - if i may ask, how old is she?