I think you're confusing a few things here, Eddie.
You speak of not wanting to change yourself, something that no one here has recommended.
It makes me wonder how you define yourself.
Are you defined by your integrity?
... personality?
... family?
... job?
No one has stated that they dislike you. Your perspective on the situation, perhaps, but that is different. They have simply offered well-meaning advice.
Your resistance to altering your behavior to adjust for the current market is one of the many reasons you're likely out of work. Sure, blame the economy. But what's stopping you from branching off on your own - rather than waiting for assignments?
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"Sometimes I have to remember that things are brought to me for a reason, either for my own lessons or for the benefit of others." Cynthetiq
"violence is no more or less real than non-violence." roachboy
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