I may be being crazy, but I've found as a 40 year old man, recently re-introduced to a group of people I was at college with 20 years ago (via Facebook), that at a time in my life when I was wondering how to get women to notice me and trying all sorts of gentle things (card games, walks, meals, films) to get them to fall for me, it turns out that a couple of the ones that I desperately wanted to notice me already had, and have spent the last 20 years wondering why I never made a move!
In short, if I'd been brave enough to say "Hey [lady's name], I really like you - would you like to be more than just friends?", I'd have got a very positive response. Obviously as a happily married man of 40 this makes me chuckle, but if I could go back and tell my 20 year old self, he'd be balls deep in flexible young women!
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Overhead, the Albatross hangs motionless upon the air,
And deep beneath the rolling waves,
In labyrinths of Coral Caves,
The Echo of a distant time
Comes willowing across the sand;
And everthing is Green and Submarine
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