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Originally Posted by chelle21689
When I first questioned her, he use to tell me everything and go along with what I needed to talk about. Apparently, I talk about her too much or bring her up in our conversations that he just gets annoyed now and it's just "end of discussion" kind of thing. So, I tried to get around to ask him about "Why aren't you with her if she's a lot like you and get along" so instead I asked what he thought about him being an extrovert with another extrovert and what he thought about us since I'm an introvert.
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Originally Posted by Cynthetiq
I don't think it's disrespectful, if you are uncomfortable with it even a little, it's an issue. It can and probably will grow into a big green monster in the future.
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This to me already says they have problems as she has pushed her insecurities upon him to the point it's pissing him off.
My advice, Chill. BIG chill. Like many said before, if he is going to cheat, it's going to happen. There isn't a damn thing you can do to keep him from doing it (if he wants too at all). There is a way you can PUSH him into her arms, which is bug the everliving shit out of him and throw mounds of teenage drama his way about this girl. He's in the military, he's away from you, he needs friends. Seems like the worse possible thing you can do is be all "I KNOWS you be cheating on me with that HOOCHIE!" and drive 15 hours across the state wearing diapers so that you don't have to stop to pee just to catch him in the act of sitting on her couch.
If you want this to work, you need to trust him to do the right thing. There is really nothing else you can do.