I'm pretty sure that's how friendships go. Unless the conditions of your 'monogamous' relationship make it not OK to hang out with another female, I don't see anything particularly wrong. Most monogamy agreements draw the line at kissing, etc. If you're uncomfortable, you're welcome to tell him he shouldn't do that, but I'm not sure it'll be received well. It almost seems like you're saying if you were in his shoes you'd be gettin' it on with the friend, and so you don't see why he wouldn't. A bit unfair to project your self-control on him.
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