After a miscarriage there is something decent about waiting til she is emotionally well. It migt take a while yes, but that does not mean you should kick her while she is down, and maybe make her have a real meltdown.
And return on investment depends on the person, if your measure of success is all about money, and not satisfaction and joy in what you do. Some people do not want to be ultra wealthy but only care about enjoying their job and having a good life. Either way he did not break up with her before because of the major and her student loans.
I think as a decent person you should wait and who knows he may still feel for her and want to remain when the scare from the potential fatherhood fades, but to leave now would be cruel.
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