Okay, so it is clear we are suffering from a case of semantics.
First of all, I don't have a low opinion of Film studies majors. I said the degree is useless...does not have any value (read Return on Investment) in the real world. Yes, there are people with that degree who have leveraged it to its fullest and become very wealthy. Most who receive it, do not. OR, their success is completely detached from the actual degree itself. I believe that would bear out to be true, if I were inclined to do any research. Regardless, I stand by the statement. A fool is one who rings up massive student loan debt to get such a specialized degree, with very few jobs requiring it.
Second of all, breaking up romantically does not equal abandonment. You can state that this scare has made you see that the romantic part of your relationship needs to end because your value systems are not aligned...and you are now going to consider yourselves friends.
That declaration is FAR more upfront than stopping the romantic part, but not telling her about it - which seems to be your suggestion.
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