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I remain skeptical. Not necessarily about you, soma. You've been around long enough that my question about you trolling us was asking a question whose answer I already knew.
I'm not 100% convinced she was ever pregnant. I don't see where you explicitely stated that you'd been to the doctor with her. If you did, obviously you're not being tricked. And based on other threads, I still see that as a real possibility.
Now, about the rest - frankly I'm disappointed in a lot of folks here. We don't treat other long-timers like this. Not cool.
But there's a kernel of wisdom from the mouths of insensitive douches: don't stick your dick in this girl again. You don't have to break up with her immediately - your Real Life friends that are telling you not to do that are right. It would make you a real asshole. And you're not one, are you?
You can stay with her for a bit before you break it off. You were already drifting apart. This is a stressful thing for any relationship, and it's going to almost certainly drive the two of you apart. There's no guidebook for this sort of thing, but you've got to give her some time to get herself back together before you break up with her. Remember the Campsite Rule of Dating - always leave the other party in better condition than you found them (usually that only applies if there's a big age difference, but I think it's relevant here).
No one is saying you have to stay with her long-term. I'm only saying don't ever have sex with her again (for obvious fertility reasons) and give her some time before you break it off. Do the right thing.
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