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Move on, dont contact the person. Yeah its tough but so is anything worthwhile.
You still have some sort of illusion of that relationship that is nowhere near reality.
We've all been there, just take our advice and do the hard part, go forward and don't look back! When you are feeling weak or pensive do something to distract yourself.
When I was feeling the way you do, wanting to remorse or make some sort of meaning from the relatinship mess I left, I went to hang around other people. A cafe or bookstore, club, whatever. Anything to get my mind out of that gutter of the past it wandered to so often. Then after TIME, it happened less and less and life got to normal again. But yeah, it takes TIME, so be patient and pay it forward.
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