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Good points Martian, you always have a smooth sense of things.
Being in the military and pre-military training since I was 16, I have had issues from my (now ex) finacee. She was fanatically jealous of other girls in the unit and accused me often of doing something with them.
Honestly, there was ZERO attraction to those girls, I didnt even try to look down their shirt or at their ass when they turned around. It was more of a brotherhood and easy going friendship. Perhaps the jealousy was over the fact that those girls could joke and shoot the shit with the guys a lot easier than a suspicious girlfriend could.
In the end, after many years of accusing me of one thing or another, the relationship ended with her actually cheating.
While ironic, she fell ill to her own poison of the mind.
Martian is right, he either will find somebody else, or he wont. Thats logic. The moment you step in and try to force his life in a direction, things will get very ugly.
There are some things you share in a relationship, and some things better left UNSAID.
Leave your suspicions and jealousy unsaid as it will only make things worse.
Before you start any drama, always ask yourself "to what good would this serve?" then go from there.
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