I have learnt my lesson in my dealings with this person in the past few days.
I held out an olive branch and sent him an email wishing him and his family well for the future, despite everything that happened.
He then complained that I was harassing him, and has made up a whole heap of lies making me out to be the unbalanced one. I have learnt that some people only know anger, not forgiveness - nor do they deserve pity as they try to bring people down in order to make their despicable behaviour look sane.
I even said I would never contact him again, yet he still had to be 'one up'. A waste of 5 years, a pathetic liar of a boy and sad product of his poor choices.
I have nothing to be ashamed of and I feel relieved I am away from his mess.
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"We make a living by what we get but we make a life by what we give"
Winston Churchill
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